What's easy isn't always right, and what's right isn't always easy.
Stand Strong
It isn’t always easy to say no. Especially when you find yourself in situations where it seems like you are the only one not drinking or doing drugs, but we promise, you are not alone. In fact, the majority of teens make the decision to abstain from using drugs and alcohol. It’s easier to stand by your decision when you feel prepared and know what you’re going to say when they are offered to you. Here are some tips on how to navigate that sticky situation:
- Blame your parents. “My parents would kill me.” is something everyone can relate to. You can tell your friends that your parents breathalyze you or you don’t want to get grounded because of big upcoming plans you have.
- Keep busy. If you are at a party and you already look like you are having fun dancing, telling jokes, engaging in conversation etc. you will be less of a target for unwanted offers.
- Stay cool. If you act like saying “no” is no big deal, then most likely the people you’re with won’t think it is either.
- Have a backup plan. Set up a code word with a parent or older sibling you can text that can help you get out of an uncomfortable situation.
- Pick a new crowd. Real friends will respect your decision to not drink or do drugs. Try to surround yourself with people who support you and avoid situations where you know you might feel pressured to do things you don’t want to do.
A decision today can affect your future forever
Legal Consequences
In Florida, the possession of alcohol by a minor is usually classed as a second-degree misdemeanor. A first offense could mean a $500 fine and up to 60 days in jail. A second offense is considered a first-degree misdemeanor that can lead to $1,000 fine and up to one year in jail.
Drug possession by a minor and Florida can vary from a simple misdemeanor to a felony possession charge depending on the substance and amount. For teens, it’s especially important to note that possessing drugs of any amount within 1,000 feet of a school is classed as a felony charge and is punishable by up to 15 years in prison and a fine of $10,000. While these cases are handled in juvenile court, the judge may feel the defendant should be tried as an adult which may result in higher fines and longer sentences.
Physical and Emotional Consequences
Alcohol
Between the ages of thirteen and twenty-five, your brain is going through a lot of developmental changes. That is why drinking at a young age, especially in excess can be damaging both physically and mentally. Drinking alcohol leads to a greater risk of memory and learning issues and increases the risk of alcoholism later in life. It can cause delayed puberty, lower bone density, liver damage, and can stunt your growth.
Marijuana
While there are some states that have legalized marijuana for adults over the age of twenty-one. Studies have shown that marijuana use can alter the structure of the teenage brain, specifically in areas that handle problem solving and memory.